Sex 101: For Parent’s & Church Leaders

By | 2017-11-05T19:55:40+00:00 November 1st, 2017|Healing, Masculinity, Pornography, Relationships, Sexual Abuse, Sexuality|

 “Our sexuality affects everything we do, and everything affects our sexuality. The same is true of our spirituality -- that which is most deeply meaningful to us. We can deny both. But denying them does [...]

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Goodness is Here: A poem of therapeutic gratitude

By | 2017-09-18T19:12:11+00:00 September 18th, 2017|Glory, Grief, Healing, Masculinity, Poetry, Shame, Writings|

This past week I spent in Ashland, OR at the Masters Center for Transformation, facilitated by Dr. Robert Masters (http://robertmasters.com/) . It was some of the deepest psychospiritual healing work I have ever done in [...]

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Pornography & Emotional Enmeshment

By | 2017-09-07T20:02:07+00:00 August 25th, 2017|Addiction, Healing, Pornography, Relationships, Sexual Abuse, Sexuality|

The pattern I often see when helping others process an unwanted relationship with pornography is a correlation between addiction and the propensity toward emotionally enmeshed relationships. Pornography teaches us to relate with emotional fusion and [...]

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My Love & Hate for Women: a recovering sex addict’s ambivalence with femininity

By | 2017-07-26T00:47:50+00:00 July 13th, 2017|Addiction, Healing, Pornography, Relationships, Sexuality|

I love women and I hate them. I need a woman close by to survive yet I can’t have a woman too close. If she gets too close, I will either self-destruct or annihilate her [...]

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