What If My Penis Could Talk?
During my 13-year addiction to pornography and 20-year addiction to the objectification of women, I am wondering what my penis would have said if it had a [...]
The Minimization of Pornography
“I have been in sin and need prayer” or “I have a problem with lust” are common confessions within the church context. Those with a bit more [...]
Practicing Full Consent
I remember when I was living fully into my compulsive sexual behaviors of pornography, fantasy, and masturbation, my brain always seeking its next high. Scanning rooms for [...]
I Caught my Teen Son Using Porn, What Do I Do?
A common question I get asked weekly is, “What do I do—I caught my teenage son looking at porn?” I intend to write the book, The Sexually [...]
Watching My Mother Die
Watching my mom die in such a gruesome way has been agonizing. You see, it’s not your typical tragic ending. It’s not like the horrific cancer that [...]
Dangerous Grace: Having Boundaries Against Spiritual Manipulation
Grace is the foundation of our Christian faith. Jesus giving his sinless life in place of our own is what the good news is all about. But [...]